Quirky Entry #1: The "I really don't like him" moments.
As an avid romance reader the "I really don't like him" moments are kind of common especially to our proactive female characters.
Mainly, these are what I've gained from the brave women-empowered characters and their authors. What to do? How to tell him? What if he's really persistent? What are the aftermaths? REASONS WHY YOU CAN'T HAVE 'GUYS' IN YOUR LIFE YET 1. You had bad past experiences with boys. 2. You're focus is on your studies. 3. You're a lesbian 4. You're asexual 5. Not ready for commitment 6.He's just not your type 7. Interested in someone else 8. Friendzone
WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO TELL HIM? 1. If he's a friend--find the most comfortable and ethical way to tell him about how you feel about him. EXAMPLES: Confront him Write him a letter 2. If he's a stranger-- ignorance can be your bestfriend though, but if he's really gullible about it, try the former mentioned. 3. If he's a complete jerk-- forget being ethical, fight for what you feel, if he's really that mean and bothersome.
WHAT IF HE'S REALLY PERSISTENT? 1. Confront him and make sure you have that "I don't like, don't you get it" vibe. 2. IF HE BECAME MAD AT YOU? Forget about it, you know what you truly feel. If you don't like him--THEN ACT LIKE YOU DON'T. You don't have to make him understand if he really can't. It's his own problem. You did your part.
THE AFTERMATHS 1. You might miss the feeble romance he was doing to you. 2. You might not be aware that you reciprocate what he feels and it's just too late for you. 3. He might just pull-out a greater effort to show you how he feels. 4. Peace of mind and freedom. 5. Catharsis